Girlfriend and sexual health question.?
Me and my girlfriend "were virgins but every time I put it in her she hurts and says she doesnt feel no in and out motion at all just pain what does this mean? she said the second time it didnt hurt as much. but Same results. (hurt a little) My second question my girlfriend had an Orgasm because she said she felt a tingle and she contracted because I felt it. Is it an orgasm beyond the 1 she had? If so how do I make her reach it keep going? she says she feels sleepy when that happens. I just want everything to be perfect.
December 2nd, 2009 at 2:21 pm
Here’s the deal;
The reason your girlfriend hurts is because she is / was a virgin. Your girlfriend will continue to hurt until her hymen breaks. A lot of people refer to this as "popping her cherry". Your girlfriend’s vagina is tight until you two continue to have sex. Introducing yourself to her vagina over and over again – it will learn to accommodate you. Continue having sex, and she will eventually be fine. Also, when her hymen breaks, there is a chance there will be blood, but she will be fine.
To have your girlfriend reach her orgasm, yes, keep going. Do what she likes; Discuss what you both like. Being open about your sex life is the only way to be sexually active and happy with each other. Most people don’t take advantage of this, and are usually just having a normal sex life. Be active, adventurous and fun about sex. The reason she is tired, is because when a person has an orgasm the body releases a chemical (I don’t remember what it is called) but it makes you extremely tired (which is why most guys are advertised as falling asleep after sex). An orgasm is the number one headache reliever and tranquilizer.
Have fun, let me know how it goes.
December 2nd, 2009 at 2:21 pm
keep screwing her and eventually it will be.