So I’ve been dating my boyfriend for a little over 6 months and I’ve known him for probably 4 years or so. Anyways, one night we decided to have sex and like most guys I expected him to Finish in 20 minutes like I do and like my ex-boyfriend did. Well boy was I in for it, after literally an hour and 15 minutes of sex he finally finishes. At first I didn’t really see the big deal, I thought it was like a one time deal for him taking that long, boy was I wrong. It always takes him so long to Orgasm and I don’t know why.
As a teenager he use to Masturbate a lot like, 3-5 times a day but now that he’s older he’s slowed down (or so he says). We have a pretty good sex life like we have it a couple times a week.
Anyways…
Why does he take so long to reach an orgasm? Tips to make him not take so long? Please be serious people don’t be lame-o’s 
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My Boyfriend Takes Forever To Orgasm. Why?
November 14th, 2009 
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Posted in Sexual 
Men that masturbate are used to the firm contact and friction on their penis to stimulate them and achieve orgasm. A normal vagina is simply not tight enough to replicate this and therefore it takes longer for him to orgasm.
This is normal when a man first starts a sexual relationship after being single for a while. It should go away as the penis is retrained to appreciate the less firm grip and lower friction of the vagina.
If it isn’t going away it is because he still masturbates regularly.
i would say he is still masturbating a lot
My guess is he still masturbates too much. If you can somehow get him to stop for a month, he will be normal again. The problem is if you don’t watch him every minute he will probably do it and you will be back to where you are now.
Another approach, if the problem is psychological, would be to have him do it to himself while you are watching him, then next time have him do it and cum on your body, and then next have him do it and come inside your vagina, and then after that he should be able to cum inside you.
It could be worse – he could have P.E.
sense he masterbated so much as a teenager, i think he is so used to that now i takes alot in order for him to orgasm or cum or whatever you want to call it. hope i helped!
YOU SHOULD BE BLESSED! MOST GUYS FINISH IN 3-5 MINUTES TOPED! WHY ARE YOU COMPLAINING? DOES IT NOT FEEL GOOD?
JUST GIVE HIM ORAL BEFORE YOU GUYS START
Surely that’s a good thing?
I find if I’m trying to cum a second, third, fourth, fifth, etc time in one day it takes longer, so tell him not to masturbate inbetween having sex – just wait til you have sex. Basically the opposite to what men with Premature Ejaculation do!!
If he is under a great deal of stress that can cause the delay in his orgasm. I believe they call it retrograde ejaculation, but I am not sure.
Is he worried about you getting pregnant, that can keep him from ejaculating?
If he drinks alcohol before you make love that can cause the delay in his orgasm.
Have you talked to him about it? Some men think that for the woman’s sake having sex for longer time is always better and they’ll try to hold out as long as possible.
I’m in my 40’s and I still last a long time too, although not that long. He may need more for play, or role play to get off.
Start off with some oral or hand and then try some new positions.
I prefer to be on the bottom, with her on top. The vision of her riding me brings me to climax faster.
hes an alien injecting eggs into you so that 5 years from now they will hatch and take over your body
maybe he does that so the intercourse can last longer and not short because most guys like to finish it with an orgasm
He takes long to orgasm because he has good PC muscles